Girl Crush Pyjama Party with Ollie Neveu

Ollie Neveu is a writer, artist, coach, mentor and fur mamma my go to gal when it comes to all things fluffy! She's a totally awesome spiritual channel for the animal kingdom and runs the most amazing animal healing circles once a fortnight that anyone (human or animal!) can join. Ollie is high vibe to the max, super intuitive and just gosh darn lovely too! 

So grab yourself a tall glass of chocolate mylk and come hang out with us at the PJ party! :D 

OMG I'm so excited to have you here at my party, how excited are you OLLIE?!

So excited! I’ve also brought my greyhound Guru Dog Neve along, I hope that’s ok? She’s totally good with cats. And by good with cats I mean - she’s terrified of them lol.

She's so welcome! Zorro is scared of mice so they'll make a good pair! 

What kind of music are we going to have at the pyjama party?

Stevie Nicks obviously. Michael Jackson always. All the best 90s stuff. Jamiroquai. Backstreet Boys. Maybe some Disney classics soundtrack for sing-a-longs? Also - we can roo with Neve!

I'm going to wear my Hello Kitty PJs, what pyjamas are you going to wear?

Nice! (Did you know she’s not even a cat? Mind blown!) I will be wearing one of my husbands old tshirts, some extra large and extra comfy pj pants, socks AND slippers because I got cold feet. My personal motto is “If you’re not snug - you’re dead”. I take comfort seriously. Plus a kimono. Because always yes to the kimono. Guru Dog Nevie will be wearing her hot pink dressing gown which used to be a blanket. Greyhounds wear pjs too - it’s a thing.

What fun make up or beauty products are in your overnight bag?

Coconut oil! Slather that shit everywhere! (Not the face though, I’m one of those sad people who can’t use it on the face). Also bentonite clay which I am obsessed with. We can make face masks or poultices or clay snowmen! And a toothbrush and toothpaste for Nevie because you don’t want to deal with her morning breath (sorry Neve!)

Who does your hair?

Define ‘does’ lol.  Basically it  grows out of my scalp and sometimes I wash it. I let it does what it wants generally.  If I am feeling fancy I will brush it. I learnt a long time ago that I’m too lazy for hair ‘doings’ unfortunately. Nevie’s fur is all naturale too. We’ve accepted the grey that’s come up in the past year. She still looks pretty good for 11 though right?

And what hairstyle would you have if you could have anything? (I'd totally have an 80's perm!)

Yaas 80s perm! I’m feeling similarly inclined. I’ve always wanted like a really good ‘fro. Hats would be impossible, but I’m willing to sacrifice head wear fashion for the best ‘fro ever!

Where do you get all those cute outfits you’re always wearing?

Actually - a lot of my wardrobe comes from Ebay these days. There’s some good stuff on there, and I love the thrill of the auction! Way better than lining up at H&M. Or otherwise - my husband’s side of the closet.

So like, how do you make money to pay for those cool pyjamas and all your awesome clothes and make up and stuff?

Well asides from the stuff I steal from my husband, I can buy things because people pay me to do cool stuff.  Like writing and partnering with animals to support them with their mission on the planet - which is to help us to come home to ourselves and find the peace our souls once knew. Plus I do animal communication and healing sessions too. It’s a pretty sweet deal.

Sounds incredible! How did you get that job?

Well I was an accountant. That didn’t work out. I ended up having an emotional and physical breakdown because it was so way off base from what my heart wanted me to do. And the only thing that would bring light into my life during this dark period of my life - was watching YouTube videos of pug dogs (true story!). I decided I needed a dog of my own to show me how to find joy everyday, and that’s how Neve came into our lives. She opened my heart to the sacred soul connection I have with animals, that I had ignored for so many years. I decided to follow my heart for a bit, and we all ended up in London, where I now get to do all this amazing stuff by sharing animal wisdom!

What fun stuff do you like doing on school nights?

Nevie and I miss my husband when he’s at work, so school nights are all about family time, eating a home cooked meal and watching some kind of something on Netflix.

How about on the weekend?

Right now we are living in the city, which gets quite overwhelming at the best of times. So in the weekends we try to get out to one of the big parks like Hampstead Heath to chill in nature and recharge our souls. And make new doggie friends!

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Someone with all the rescue animals she can possibly fit into her patch of land. It’s pretty inevitable I’m going to end up living on a farm with a rag tag bunch of wonky animals one day. And I’m totally down with that. My husbands sort of accepted it. He could be in denial.

I'm getting hungry, what's your favourite pyjama party food and beverages?

Rebel Kitchen Chocolate Mylk for sure, with the little straws because that’s just so much more fun to drink out of. Snacks is anything Booja Booja makes, in chocolate flavour of course. And peanut almond popcorn...which we could dip in chocolate vegan ice cream! Just cover me in chocolate basically.  Neve will snack on some banana please (she’s way more healthy than me!)

Favourite pizza topping?

Tomato sauce base, re fried beans, mushroom, avocado, peppers (not hot ones), spinach! Yum.

Re fried beans??! 

What movies and TV shows are we going to watch?

Game of Thrones! And then to recover from the trauma, Arrested Development to lighten the mood. Then Gilmore Girls to swoon over Jess and hopefully see him in our dreams! (Just me?). Maybe Lassie for Guru Dog Nevie?

Do you have a favourite teen movie?!

10 Things I Hate About You! Oh the feels.

OMG what was that noise?! :O Do you believe in ghosts? Have you ever seen one?

It might have been Neve. Sorry! I do believe in ghosts. I don’t think I’ve seen one. Unless they look like totally normal people, then how do I know I haven’t walked past one in the street?

Have you ever had any other cool paranormal encounters?

I’ve seen some weird lights in the sky sometimes that may or may not be from something that’s not a human plane? Other than that - just like spirit animals talking to me and stuff. Regular things, you know.

just regular old spirit animals, uh huh!

What do you think happens when we die?

Our souls return to where ever they came from, and figure out if they have more stuff to learn. If they do, back to Earth School for you! But also your soul can stick around to help people in your family etc, to be their spirit guide. At the same time. It’s not linear. That’s what I think anyway. How bout I let you know if I die first!

I know we are never really gone though. My childhood cat Taffeta spent years trying to tell me that through dreams. Only took me about 10 years to get the message lol !! I guess when you die you become extremely patient...

Who do you think you were in a past life?

I’ve done a lot of living, but one that stands out to me most is being a Central American woman in charge of the herd of paint horses that belonged to the tribe, but also were traded and sold to other people. That’s probably because I really would love a pony to cuddle in this life time!! You know, aside from my mini pony Nevie.

What time do you usually go to bed?

10.30pm ish. We’re not ravers, we enjoy sleep. Especially Neve. She sleeps 18 hours a day!

What should we do tomorrow?

We have to go to the beach please, we love the ocean. Also...are there ponies around here? Can we go stalk some maybe? And let’s get more chocolate, because I’m pretty sure the stuff for tonight wont last!

chocolate and ponies sounds good to me!

Who's your girl crush?!

Oh like asides from Stevie Nicks? Kris Carr for sure! Also Amy Poehler, I think she’s wonderful!

Because you are so girl-crush-worthy probably lots of other girls and boys are going to want you at their pyjama parties too. How can they find you?!

Yay new friends! Tell me you love pugs and we can be bffs forever!

I hang out at:

www.ollieneveu.com

www.facebook.com/mydogmyguru

www.instagram.com/mydogmyguru

I also hang out with other Animal Lovers over here:

www.facebook.com/groups/animalhealingcircle

Neve doesn’t have social media because she’s only 11 and she’s not allowed a phone until shes 13.

Thanks so much for coming to my party Ollie! I hope we can do this in real life sometime! :D 

With love and light! 

Vix

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Girl Crush Pyjama Party with Lisa Lister!

Lisa Lister is the gorgeous Goddess Creatrix of The Sassy She, author of Code Red: Know your flow, unlock your monthly super powers and create a bloody amazing life. Period., and general 'defender of female awesomeness'.

So when she said she was popping over for some nachos and a a movie I totally flipped out! :D 

OMG Lisa, I'm so excited to have you here at my party, how excited are you?!

SUPER-excited! As an introverted extrovert, this is my PERFECT party. I love PJs + I love you, so right now, this is best combo EVER.

What kind of music are we going to have at the pyjama party?

Take That’s Greatest Hits, obvz. Taylor Swift - again, obvz. Then we’ll need a girls with guitars interlude, I’m thinking The Staves, Sia, old school Alanis ‘Head Over Feet, then I’ll get all reminiscent for 90s indie rock and how I thought I was Louise Weiner from Sleeper, then I’ll remember that actually I REALLY loved 90’s boybands so we’ll sing classic after classic at the top of our voices air grabbing and getting off stools at the key change, ‘k?

That sounds better than OK! Especially Take That’s Greatest Hits! LOL!

I'm going to wear my Hello Kitty PJs, what pyjamas are you going to wear?

Nice choice, I’m going for a leopard-print lounge suit. I may mix it up with a pair of gold hoops + work it like JLo.

What fun make up or beauty products are in your overnight bag?

Ohhh my make up bag is FULL. There is a whole lot o’ Kat Von D goodness in there – I am obsessed by her + her make up range, you will find at least three tubes of Backstage Bambi lip paint, because I get palpitations that I might lose one.  I’ve got Jo Malone Fig + Cassius perfume, a tube of carmex, and six varying shades of red nail varnish.

K, I’m totes borrowing one of your lip paints! :D Who does your hair?

I’ve been growing out my pin-up girl fringe that I’ve had for YEARS + I’ve just got past that ‘gringe’ phase (grown-out fringe) and I’m craving the short bangs again – what’s a girl to do? Shall we cut it? How are you with a pair of scissors, Vix?

I’ve been cutting my own hair for years, I’m even better at it after a drink or two…

what hairstyle would you have if you could have anything? (I'd totally have an 80's perm!)

YES! You’d really work a 80’s perm, so if you’re going to cut me a fringe, I think I’d love victory rolls to match with some obscenely huge floral accessories ala Frida Kahlo. Failing that, I’m thinking a Joan Jet style late 70’s rock mullet!

I’ve been thinking about a mullet too, we could re-vive something here…

where do you get all those cute outfits you’re always wearing?

The 50’s dresses are mostly from Lady Vintage + Get Cutie as they take into account that some girls have hips + asses – hurrah for them! The black outfits of which there are 2,9887950 – because this witch wears black a LOT - are my life work + have been collected from everywhere between Marc Jacobs + Sainsbury’s Tu collection.

I too have some pieces from the Sainbsury’s Tu collection!

So like, how do you make money to pay for those cool pyjamas and all your awesome clothes and make up and stuff?

I’m a writer, I’ve written for magazines both here + in the US, I’ve written a teen book self-esteen series for HarperCollins + I’ve recently signed with Hay House to publish Love Your Lady Landscape out July 4th and WITCH out Nov 1st – which I’m VERY excited about.

I’m a lady-parts health practitioner (menstrual, fertility + reproductive health) + I work with women to crack their lady code, reconnect with their SHE Power + love their lady landscape. I’m chief creatrix at www.thesassyshe.com + founder of the SHE Flow system; a personal invite to celebrate the fiercely feminine, sensual pleasure of being a woman through sacred feminine movement, womb + menstrual massage, ancient rituals + lady magic.

WOW! That’s quite the CV! So how did you get that job?

I’ve been a writer since…FOREVER. My first proper job was at a teen magazine called Just Seventeen, I then went on to become an agony aunt at Mizz Magazine, all the while was having crazy bad menstrual pain + heavy bleeding. After years of misdiagnosis, was told that I had a Endometriosis, a gnarly down-there dis-ease that I knew NOTHING about. The doctor told me I wouldn’t be able to have kids and that my only option was to have my entire reproductive system ‘whipped out’ – this led to what’s been a 11 year exploration of my own lady landscape, an unlocking of feminine super powers, learning a variety of ancient + modern healing modalities, the power of reconnecting with our pelvis and a super loud call from SHE/the divine feminine/my spiritual homegirl to share what I’ve learned + experienced with ladykind.

And ladykind thanks you!

What fun stuff do you like doing on school nights?

Ohhh I HATE going to bed later than 10.30pm so ideally, extra curricular activities happen before 9pm! Right now I go to Astro school + learn all things astrology from star-dude David Wells, I cuddle, kiss + date my hot Viking husband a lot, I like to draw + create in the evening (I’m working on a new set of SASSY SHE oracle cards!) on Friday evenings when everyone else is going out drinking, I go to the Viking’s Yoga Nidra class in Southsea, where I get to drop deep into yogic sleep, chant + breathe well – best medicine ever.

Sounds pretty perfect to me! How about on the weekend?

I like to get out in nature, so either a stomp in the forest or a trip to the seaside are my go-to favourite ways to spend a weekend, I do also like a roadtrip. The Viking and I are the best couple to roadtrip with, we make playlists, pack the best snacks (we have a M+S at the end of our road so we always have posh snacks, put a pin in a map and drive! We’ve discovered castles, stone circles, crazy toy museums and everything in between!

OK I think me and Mr New Age Hipster are gonna suggest a double date road trip!

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Ha! Growing up is over-rated, I reckon. Do you know what? I’m actually really bloody happy right now, I’m doing work I love –some days I write in my PJs, other days I get to massage wombs, other days I mentor + coach, host workshops + retreats + other days I get to go to swanky events and wear pretty shoes.
Life is sweet. I’m creative, I travel, I kiss a Viking daily – I don’t know if that means I’m grown up, but I do know that I LOVE it!

I'm getting hungry, what's your favourite pyjama party food and beverages?

Ohhh, dim sum. ALL THE DIM SUM.

Favourite pizza topping?

Cheese, tuna + sweetcorn – ohhhh yeah, I went there.

nomZ!! What movies and TV shows are we going to watch?

We’ll make magharitas + watch Practical Magic, we’ll put on black lipstick + pretend we’re in The Craft, I’m also thinking we can put Charmed re-runs on while we talk because we’ve already seen every episode, right?

Charmed forever! :D Do you have a favourite teen movie?!

CLUELESS. Clueless is EVERYTHING.

OMG what was that noise?! :O Do you believe in ghosts? Have you ever seen one?

I absolutely believe in spirit, but no I’ve never seen a ghost. Spirit comes to visit me all the time but I tell them not to show themselves to me as I’d freak out – it’s hilarious isn’t it? I’m a feeler. I feel energy, and spirit speaks through me, but I genuinely think I’d freak out if I actually saw it!

What do you think happens when we die?

That light we see? I think it’s the vagina opening birthing us into our next experience. I mean, I really believe that. The body I chose this lifetime + when I say ‘I’, I don’t mean Lisa with the cool tattoos and an ability to accessorise, I mean the one that’s behind all that, the one that takes a body each lifetime to learn + grow, is simply a vessel to experience the cycle of life in human form at this time. Death is simply us being done with this body + it’s learning this lifetime.

Who do you think you were in a past life?

Well, I’m always pissed that I WASN’T Cleopatra, but I’ve been told I was one of her hand maidens + a temple priestess by people I’ve had readings with. I only had my first regression quite recently, + I was in a woman’s body in Palastine at the beginning of the first millennia, I wore a red cloak and my tongue was cut so clearly I was saying stuff people thought I shouldn’t – no change there then!

What time do you usually go to bed?

10.30pm, but this is a sleepover so we’re absolutely going to drink gin and talk til 3am, right?

I’m going to try to stay up until at least 11pm! :D

What should we do tomorrow?

Let’s go get a really yummy breakfast together, talk esoteric to each other for hours + then walk arm in arm along the beach. If there is a workshop we can take together – I love a Saturday afternoon workshop – we should totally do that.

Who's your girl crush?!

OHMYSTARS, I have a gazillion. Frida Kahlo, Lena Denham, Mary Magdalene, Joan Jett, Caitlin Moran, Cleopatra, Cher from Clueless, Taylor Swift. I have the big love for Tay-tay.

Because you are so girl-crush-worthy probably lots of other girls and boys are going to want you at their pyjama parties too. How can they find you?!

www.thesassyshe.com
www.facebook.com/sassyology
www.instagram/sassylisalister

Thank you so much for coming to my PJ Party Lisa! :D 

Love and light!

Vix

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Girl Crush Pyjama Party with Rebecca Campbell!

OMG Rebecca Campbell, the Queen of the Lightworkers is coming over! Grab the vacuum and give me a hand to clean this place up! YIKES! 

Rebecca Campbell is a HUGE girl crush of mine, and probably yours too! She's a kaftan wearing, soul inspiring, spirit soaring, total hottie! Oh yeah, and she's also a Hay House Author and wrote this pretty great book called Light is the New Black that you may have heard me raving about, only like, ALL THE TIME because it's AWESOME!

So, Bec, what kind of music do you want at the pyjama party? 

The Staves, Laura Shera, Mumford and Sons, Florence and the Machine, Amy Firth and Ben Lee.

What pyjamas are you going to wear?

I’ll be the one in a slip my mum made for me, fluffy socks and a pink nanna blanket wrapped around me ;)

So cosy! So like, how do you make money to pay for those cool pyjamas and all your awesome clothes and make up and stuff?

What I love doing most is writing in nature. I wrote all of my first book Light Is The New Black with the flowers of Regents Park. I’m a total nature girl.

When I’m not frolicking amongst the flowers I’m doing readings or spiritual mentoring and encouraging Lightworkers to come out of the spiritual closet and work out what their soul is calling them towards.

I’m working on some online courses at the moment and do workshops, events, and urban retreat days too!

WOW, you sure are busy! How did you get that job?

I followed the call of my soul and leaped a lot.

What fun stuff do you like doing on school nights?

I’m a total home-body. Most nights I have a nice dinner (total foodie), pouring a bath and reading one of my ten books that I have on the go, or watching a good US drama TV Series.

How about on the weekend?

If I don’t have an event on I’m probably drenching myself in nature, eating great food, doing a course (total course junkie) or traveling somewhere new. I love the perspective and inspiration that travelling to new lands sparks. I’m also a water baby and so any possible moment I get to get to the ocean I take it.

What do you want to be when you grow up? 

A writer and teacher who is grounded in her work and creations.

Where do you buy your super cute outfits?

I’m a kaftan lover. I tend to get these in Oz in the sales.

What are your favourite beauty products?

Absolute Rose Oil, my homemade own sea salt and coconut body scrub, Red Roses Perfume by Jo Malone and I have an Epsom salt bath several times a week.

Hmmm that scrub sounds so good! Who does your hair?

My old housemate Amy at Viva Soho.

I'm getting hungry! What's your favourite pyjama party food and beverages?

Popcorn and anything with bubbles… Verve anybody?

Oh and these amazing Raw Chocolate Pie things with Pink Himalayan Salt made in Cornwall… seriously beyond.

OMG NOMS! Favourite pizza topping?

I’m pretty simple, margharita and chilli flakes for me…. But gotta be from a proper Italian place. I try and stay clear of gluten and diary where possible, so if I’m eating pizza I make it worth it ;)

OMG I LOVE chilli flakes on Pizza too! Favourite high school movie?

Murial’s Wedding – best movie ever.

Agreed! It's getting late so we have to tell ghost stories! Do you believe in ghosts?

Absolutely.

Have you ever had a spooky or paranormal encounter? 

Yep loads! My first was when traveling in Scotland when I was a teenager. My most recent was in Merlin’s Cave in Cornwall a couple of days ago.

What do you think happens when we die? 

I’m in awe of the mystery of it. When I feel into it I feel that we return to oneness and by that I mean we don’t have the duality that Earth has. The ego/mind and body is no more but our soul lives on. I believe we also learn and devote ourselves to be of service in between lives, and that we choose to incarnate on different planets aside from this one.

Who do you think you were in a past life? 

High Priestess of Avalon and Isis, a hard working farmer in China, an Essene Mystic in Palestine, a Sufi poet in Jordan and a witch (wise woman) in the middle ages/burning times.

What time do you usually go to bed?

11ish… but it should be earlier.

What do you want to do tomorrow?

Hug my fiancé – I’ve been away in Glastonbury for over a week and miss him!

Who's your crush?! 

Serbian performance artist Marina Ambrovic. Her work and the way she lives her art inspires me so much. And Sufi Poet Hafiz, his words are like honey in my heart. Can’t get enough.

Because you are so girl-crush-worthy probably lots of other girls and boys are going to want you at their pyjama parties too. How can they find you?!

On my website, facebook, insta and twitter…. Or by coming along one of my events or picking up my book Light Is the New Black 

Thank you so much Rebecca for coming to my party! It was freaking amazing to have you here!

And if you guys are also crushing on Bec SO bad right now, check out her totally free and most AWESOME video series that will help you to shine your light brighter than ever before! 

Now go and get yourself a copy of Light is the New Black, and I'll see you all in a couple of days!

Love, light and lightworker sleep overs!

Vix

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Girl Crush Pyjama Party with Tamara AKA WolfSister!

I'm so thrilled to have the gorgeous Tamara AKA Wolf Sister over this week for a PJ Party! I adore this woman, her energy is so high vibe it's ridonkulous! (Do people still say ridonkulous?) She's a Shamanic Practitioner, Potion Maker (I totally heart Wolf Juice!) and a Tarot Reader too! But most of all she is just a gorgeous soul, a lovely light being and the perfect pal to eat pizza with!

OMG Tamara!! I'm so excited to have you here at my party, how excited are you?!

I'm heaps excited! I love pyjama parties.

What kind of music are we going to have at the pyjama party?

Spice Girls, Beyonce, TLC…. Anything with girl power vibes please.

#GirlPower! I'm going to wear my Hello Kitty PJs, what pyjamas are you going to wear?

One of my favourite oversize t shirts and some tropical shorts.

What fun make up or beauty products are in your overnight bag?

I've packed my festival make up bag with glitter, sparkles and face paint so we can be Unicorn maidens…

Oh, and my Dr Organics Aloe Vera Eye Gel in case we stay up late and I've got puffy eyes in the morning - it's one of my essentials.

Unicorn Maidens for life! Who does your hair?

Mostly me! I'm a qualified hairdresser but if I can't do it myself then I get one of my lovely friends at Toni & Guy (Chelmsford) to help make my hair look pretty.

And what hairstyle would you have if you could have anything? (I'd totally have an 80's perm!)

If I could have anything then I would bleach all of my hair and dye it different shades of Lavender, then I'd have it cut into a long bob! That would be my ultimate dream hair.

That sounds soooo coool! Where do you get all those cute outfits I've seen you in?

I usually shop in Topshop or Urban Outfitters but I love treasure hunting through markets when I'm on my travels to find something a bit different.

So like, how do you make money to pay for those cool pyjamas and all your awesome clothes and make up and stuff?

As a Shaman, I work with my animal guides to help people have an energetic spring clean so that they feel aligned, centred and clear. Most of my clients are kindred sisters who are seeking to release some outdated feelings/thought processes/attachments and expand their consciousness to a more spiritually connected vibration, ultimately creating space for more of the good stuff to come in! When the moon is right, I make supernatural potions so that people can have good vibes to take-away. I also love working with the magic mirror that is the Tarot!

Uh, WOW. How did you get that job?

I just followed what I love doing, put in a lot of hard work and here I am!

What fun stuff do you like doing on school nights?

Watch movies or Game of Thrones, chill with my boyfriend and our kitty Ava, catch up with friends or read one of the many books that I've got on rotation.

How about on the weekend?

If I'm not working then I'm either off on adventure with my boyfriend or at a meditation class or workshop. I've been going to Jody Shield's Sunday Sessions once a month and I love locking myself down into two hours of energetic work for just for me. It's easy to forget your own self-care practice when you love helping other people. I'm really trying to make time out for myself like this non-negotiable.

What do you want to be when you grow up?

I'm working towards being a full time Sorceress when I grow up.

I'm getting hungry, what's your favourite pyjama party food and beverages?

I love sipping on Arizona Green Tea with Honey and I've recently discovered The Coconut Collaborative Snow Coconut frozen yoghurt which is my new favourite - I'm seriously considering breaking up with Ben & Jerry for this one. It's delicious!

Ben & Jerry will be so sad! Favourite pizza topping?

King Prawn with Rocket and Mozzerella if they've got it or a Margarita with pesto please!

Uh, YUM! What movies and TV shows are we going to watch?

Have you seen Snow White and the Huntsman? I could get lost in that film forever. Game of Thrones is another favourite too, I've only just gotten over my withdrawals after season 5.

OK I so need to see Snow White and the Huntsman! Do you have a favourite teen movie?!

I used to love watching Clueless! At one point, I knew all the lines because I'd watched it so many times haha.

OMG what was that noise?! :O Do you believe in ghosts? Have you ever seen one?

Oh yes definitely! I've seen a few which used to freak me out but now I try to help them cross to the other side if they are trying to get my attention.

Have you ever had any other cool paranormal encounters?

Ummm…. I see other peoples Spirit Guides/Animals and feel other peoples feelings which I guess could be classed as paranormal. I think that somewhere along the line paranormal has become my normal…

What do you think happens when we die?

I believe that we go on to our next soul evolution when we die. That means that we might reincarnate back here or come back as a guide or angel to help the other people in our Soul Group. Have you read Many Masters, Many Lives by Brian Weiss? His book really introduced this concept to me.

I love Brian Weiss, I did a book report on one of his books in high school! LOL! Who do you think you were in a past life?

I've been a healer of different sorts and was totally burnt as a witch at least once before - that's why it was so scary for me to come out of the spiritual closet in this life time!

What time do you usually go to bed?

I'd love to be one of those people that go to bed before half 10 but I usually end up in bed by half11ish. I think I try to fit too much into my days….

What should we do tomorrow?

Shall we go crystal shopping or maybe check in with the Akashic Records?

Who's your girl crush?!

Oh wow! Everyday seems to be a girl crush these days. I've been meeting so many kindred sisters over the last year! You are definitely on the list….

Because you are so girl-crush-worthy probably lots of other girls and boys are going to want you at their pyjama parties too. How can they find you?!

You can find me at www.wolfsister.com, for more about me and what I do. I'm also a contributor for The Numinous which is where I get to share some of my mystical experiences and guides - www.thenuminous.net/author/wolfsister. For pics of things I love then follow me at www.instagram.com/__wolfsister, tweets at www.twitter.com/__wolfsister, oh and not to forget Facebook… www.facebook.com/wolfsisterhealing. I love the magic of social media for making new friends.

Thanks so much for having me Vix, you throw the best pyjama parties!

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Thanks so much for coming Tamara! I can't wait to hang out again soon! 

Love and light!

Vix

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Boy Crush Pyjama Party with Bernard Charles the Colour Mage

I've been following Bernard Charles on social media for ages, so when I invited him to my PJ party and he said yes I was like OMG I have to change the hashtag to #BoyCrush! Bernard is doing amazing things with colour. He has his own colour deck which I need in my life desperately and he even runs his own courses so you can get certified as a Colour Reader! Whoop!

So Bernard, what music do you want at the pyjama party?

I love Jessie J! Flashlight totally should be playing!

What pyjamas are you going to wear?

I will be wearing some silky black bottoms with a haematite necklace.

So like, how do you make money to pay for those cool pyjamas and all your awesome clothes and stuff?

I read people's color energies so they protect their own aura from the evil Boogiemen in the world.

How did you get into doing that for a job?

I started doing this in college making Youtube videos. Then it actually turned into something full time since I couldn't find a job to save my life. I don't handle rejection well so I am like well I am going to create my own frickin system and don't need a 9-5 boring job devaluing my entitled self-worth.

I love it! What fun stuff do you like doing on school nights?

I play Wizard101 because I need to escape the monotony of not having fiery spells and glittery orbs of light swirling around me.

How about on the weekend?

Downtime on getting focused a lot. And hanging outside since the week I am inside mostly, it's great to get out of the house and do something. There are local member meetings for different groups I am a part of and I try to socialize more on the weekends.

What do you want to be when you grow up?

My grown up self will be a global icon for color and advocacy. I see myself on the cover of magazines and expanding people's concept of color. Having a fashion line bursting with color and aura flavor. I will have written three books published professionally. And I will want to direct a film at some point.

Until you have your own fashion line (which I am SO looking forward to!) where do you buy your clothes?

Seeing that I am super color, I don't go out and purchase clothes frequently. Not having the funds would be one reason, but if I do buy some new threads you'll find me at American Eagle, Banana Republic or H&M hitting up those sales racks. Lol.

Sales are the best! What are your favourite beauty products?

I love Aura Cacia's Rose face oil, Burts Bees lip balms and Young Living's line of essential oils!! Feeling beautiful is not a crime and more people must express and advocate for their true color more!

Your hair always looks so awesome! Who does it?

I go to a local Salon and get it done professionally. I work with a very close deity who can be found at any salon - Oshun. It's about the relationship and theory behind color that draws me there and I am happy to say that I see my inner beauty better when I can see it on the outside too!

I'm getting kinda hungry, what are your favourite pyjama party food and beverages?

Popcorn all the way with a glass of wine. I like all shades and colors so anything will satisfy this late night party animal!

Favourite pizza topping?

Pepperoni and coming into a second is pineapple!!

I love Pineapple on pizza! What are we gonna watch on TV?

Sabrina the Teenage Witch!

It's getting late so we have to tell ghost stories! Do you believe in ghosts? Have you ever seen one?

So funny you should ask me this! A couple of nights ago I dreamt of my deceased grandmother. And this morning my sister tells me that she had a dream that our grandmother came to visit this house! Strange things happen. I do believe in ghosts and really excited about holding a séance in honor of connecting with the dead. Mooohahahah!

Have you ever had any other kind of spooky or paranormal encounter?

The first time I tried meditating when I was in third grade, this black ghostly form came at my face and spooked me from trying meditation ever again. It wasn't until high school reading about Siddhartha I felt fully safe again to try and meditate!

Woah! What do you think happens when we die?

I think when we live we create the world we get in the afterlife. It's all about projections. I feel that death will consist of an emptiness and a peaceness that we forgot. So we live now in order to try and project the best space thereafter!

I love that idea. Who do you think you were in a past life?

I strongly believe I was connected to being Alexander the Great. What a hunk or so the movie version makes you believe. My past lives dealt with a lot of art and beauty that I am bringing again into this age. I find myself drawn to the Holocaust so I think I might have been Hitler too. Who knows!

What time do you usually go to bed?

On average, I see 11am a lot. If I am up watching Netflix then it's like midnight. I go through a lot of oil because the night keeps me feeling inspired for clear thoughts.

What do you want to do tomorrow?

I want to read someone's color tomorrow by giving a reading. I want to just keep reading this amazing book TheDesireMap by Danielle LaPorte. It's helping my brain and body find peace again.

Who's your girl/boy crush?!

I am definitely crushing on Feather from TheWitchyMommy!

Because you are so boy-crush-worthy probably lots of other girls and boys are going to want you at their pyjama parties too. How can they find you?!

Hit me up on Instagram @thecolormage or explore the wonderful world of color at www.thecolormage.com

Thanks for coming to my PJ party Bernard! Hugz!

Love and light,

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